How easy to say” I CAN”T”!?


How easy to say” I CAN”T”!?

This week I had  an incredible experience hearing this ugly word: “ CAN”T“.

I get the point where it’s just easier to say ” I don’t know how” or “I can’t do something”, but how about learning how to do or at least trying or showing some interest to stuff that you don’t know?

Maybe it’s fun to learn new and exciting?

This simple word have a very deep meaning and almost no meaning at all.  As I mentioned this in one of my first articles, we are different from animals and other creatures not by being stronger or smarted, but by being able to communicate!

Humans were created and send to this world for one of the biggest reasons:  to create names, colors, intelligent development of this world called Earth.

Using words in writing and reading at the right times and places took us to the level of high intelligence, where we are now in 21 century.

We are advance, strong and more powerful,  than any biggest and strongest creatures on the Earth,   just because we can talk! 

So, why is this simple and pretty easy to use in every conversation word: “can’t” getting in a habit to repeat itself more often  than ever?

This is what I know, feel and will teach anyone who will read this far....

People who say “I can’t do it, I don’t know nothing about it, or I can’t because I am dump”  are  people, who don’t know their powers yet! They are not ready to recover and feel their abilities on how much more they can or can’t do!

One of the biggest lessons I ever learned in life,  that nothing is easy, and for us to get where we want, we need to really really wanted it!

Start using simple, but correct words in your sentences and it will make communication and ability to understand others as well.

In my ears,  I have an echo,  every time I hear someone say “I CAN”T”, and that echo translates as I don’t want to do this, just leave me alone!

I would love to hear and see more people willing to help, learn and try ( including myself)  and to avoid saying words we don’t mean, and before we use this strong and weak word: ” CAN”T” ,   at least , try,  before you say it or  take a chance to learn it!

That one chance can change you and your life around for good!

Good luck to everyone and hope we are getting better  with each other, by using simple and good words!

How easy to say” I CAN”T”!?







Un-learn and Re-learn

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100% true! Love this article. Good to know for every mom as well!

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If-someone-comes-alongSometimes we develop coping mechanisms in childhood, and we keep using them as we grow, even if we’ve removed ourselves from those situations that made them necessary. If you learned to push your feelings down as a child, for example, it’s highly likely you’ll grow into an adult who has difficulty expressing yourself. This stuff doesn’t just vanish, after all. And like anything else, it’s always easier to learn something the right way, than it is to unlearn one thing and relearn another. But if you’re like most people, you’ll have some unlearning to do.

Awareness isn’t the whole story, although it goes a long way. We can’t change a habit unless we know we have one. But you might be incredibly self-aware, and still feel stuck. You might realize you have abandonment issues, and you might know exactly why that is, but if you start to feel uncertain…

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Death and Existence After Death



One of the most scary subjects on Earth today is death. Everybody is afraid to die or to lose someone special.

I would like to share with everyone today what I have learned from one of my favorite books…

Death is the process in our Humanity, when human leaves his or her body and begins the new existence in the different form,  not known for us. One of the three reasons why a person afraid to die, is because of not knowing what  to expect after death.

The second reason of being scared to die is none returnable process, means that we will never see that person again, and  only our name have a stamp in history or a memory.

The last third reason to be afraid to die for every human is not being able to exist as human anymore . When a person is gone, there is no returning back, and not knowing what is waiting for us in the different existence, scares us the most.

When we live, we exist in this World and as a person, we feel our body, and we can’t realize and understand that one day we just stop breathing, stop moving our body, and stop being a person for good. Everyone is getting old, wrinkles appear on our faces, body becomes hard to manage with age.

This is the process of our humanity: baby is born, learns to talk, to walk, to survive, becomes adult, marry and make family, new baby comes to this world and the first baby gets older and older, not younger, and eventually dies, disappears from this world.

Everyone knows about death and about life circle, but nobody can  be prepared good enough to disappear from our physical appearance as Human. 


So, where does we are humans go after death? 

In death, just like in life, we are build from two not equal parts of this existence. First part is the one we see and communicate with around us world, move around, interfere with living process.  The second part of us is invisible, hidden part of us is who we are, our personality, characteristics, in one word: ” I am“.

While we are alive, “I am”  consists of soul and body and creates us as “an individual“. Death is unpredictable and dramatic because “I am” is not consider as “I am” without body and soul, and this is what makes people to afraid to die.

Very good example is  this process  we can see on butterfly. Before butterfly becomes butterfly, it’s a Caterpillar  turning into pupa, and then becomes butterfly. Butterfly doesn’t know about caterpillar existence, and caterpillar about butterfly’s. Both of those insects are connected because butterfly comes from Caterpillar, but they are totally different species. One crows and one flies!

We don’t feel soul as much as we feel our body and our materialistic world . Our minds were raised to feel body as most  important in our existence as humans, or to be more exact as “I am“. Once we are gone  from our body is  and our soul is free to fly and take a form of a different existence. This doesn’t mean that we will have grown wings to fly. We don’t know what we will be able to do after leaving our body, until we are there. Our soul is always with us, but depends on the next formation, our soul forms along.

Our emotions are associated with our dreams. Everybody dreams and sometimes our dreams can be well memorable just because of the unreal feelings, indescribable, because everything around us is materialistic, but the feeling of being outside of our body can’t be explained by materialist words.

We heard many stories about clinical death and what happens with people while going through that tunnel and seeing everything from above, still doesn’t gives us the correct description Their experience on what happened is not possible to explain in simple words.






Thousand Miles of Road

Thousand miles of road



Thousand miles of road

Moving as fast as me,

Driving across the country

Away from me, but with me!


At night I’ll pass the city,

At day time, in the city.

An ocean, water gorgeous!

A lake, the Goodness city!


Thousand people I’ve met,

Different languages heard,

Thousand storms I passed,

Different beaches enjoyed.


I drive like I fly,

I sing like I dream,

I think what I see,

I enjoy what I see,

I enjoy what I see….


Never say Never…

Never get mad at someone with anxiety for apologizing a lot. It’s a coping mechanism and yelling only makes it worse. They don’t need tough love or anything like it. Reassurance that they are fine is the most important thing!!!!


Poetry for kids and adults

Poetry for kids and parents.

Poetry for kids and adultsToday is the day when I missed writing and creating my own posts, just to keep some traffic coming we were sharing a lot of news, sports and other interferences while modifications are still in process. We had a several requests to share more of my own writings, my own life stories and feelings about us, people, as Human Relationships and even some biography.

My personal Biography ebook will come on the market soon, but I will be sharing all parts of the book here with my best and favorite audience, my followers, friends and colleagues.

Today I want to educate parents who are ambitious  about their kids education.  Sometimes I ask myself about how much I want for my kids to know, to learn and to be able to survive in our World with their knowledge  and I saw a raw example how : kids are like sponges can learn as much as you want them to learn, and with a good educational skills and little knowledge I could make them to understand and succeed in such important stage of their lives!

My lesson will be very simple way to teach kids and adults to create a poem.

Example: Describe Spring using 5 senses:

Look, Sound, Feel, Smell and Taste

What does Spring look like?

What does Spring sound like?

What does Spring feel like?

What does spring smell like?

What does Spring taste like?

Make your child or yourself describe in one word the look( how do you see spring? how does it looks for you: colorful, bright, happy, sunshinny and so on…

Make you child to describe in a single word how it feels in Spring: warm, great, energized, creative, sporty, air and so on..

Smell: grassy, fresh, aromate ,rainy and so on…

Taste: fresh, sweet, aroma, and so on

Once you got the words you can connect them in a poem that will make sense and rhythm.


Spring is colorful and warm,

Energized by sun and warmth,

Smelly aromate from rain,

Brings aroma grassy air!

Another example of my pre-K girl created her poem story about her first assigned book about “bathrooms”. I am not joking, she picked her first book on subject  about bathroom. This is what she came up with:

Wash your hands,

Wash your hands,

Before you eat, 

A good health rule,

That’s hard to beat,

For better work,

For better play,

Eat three good meals,

Every day!!!



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Emergency Plane Landing Kills Beachgoer

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FLORIDA – A Georgia man was killed and his daughter critically injured Sunday when an airplane struck them as they walked along a Florida beach.

Sarasota County Sheriff’s Office spokeswoman Wendy Rose said Venice Municipal Airport officials reported a plane in distress Sunday afternoon.

The pilot of a 1972 Piper Cherokee radioed that he would be unable to make it back to the airport and that he was instead going to attempt a landing on Caspersen Beach, located just to the south.

The plane landed and struck Ommy Irizarry, 36, and his daughter, Oceana, 9, about 2:45 p.m., according to a statement from the Federal Aviation Administration.

Irizarry died on the scene. His daughter was airlifted to All Children’s Hospital and is believed to be in critical condition, according to the sheriff’s office.

“The dad looked very bad,” witness Zack Arceneaux told CNN affiliate Bay News 9. “They were performing…

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1 Dead, 13 Injured After Lightning Strikes Venice Beach

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VENICE BEACH, California – A sunny day at California’s famed Venice Beach took a dark turn Sunday when one person died and a dozen others were injured after a rare lightning strike.

A man in his mid-20’s died at at the hospital after being transported from Venice Beach, said John Kades of the Los Angeles Coroner’s office.

It’s too early to determine whether he died as a result of “a lightning strike, drowning, or being trampled by the crowd,” according to Kades.

The lightning hit the water and the beach at 2:51 p.m. (5:51 p.m. ET), according to spokeswoman Katherine Main of the Los Angeles Fire Department.

At least 13 patients — all of whom were either in or near the water — were assessed on the scene. Of those, seven adults and one teenager were transported to local hospitals.

One patient had to be pulled from the…

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Warmth in Human Relationships

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I found this story online and would like to share it with all of you! It’s life and sometimes,  we are reacting to things,  that happens with us, in the the wrong ways. This story teaches us that we can’t change the past, we can only change the future. Blaming each other for mistakes,  that both parents are responsible,  is not a good idea. Without support of each other, we can’t survive! Please read, share and comment on Human Relationships.
A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open.
He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in…

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Warmth in Human Relationships

I found this story online and would like to share it with all of you! It’s life and sometimes,  we are reacting to things,  that happens with us, in the the wrong ways. This story teaches us that we can’t change the past, we can only change the future. Blaming each other for mistakes,  that both parents are responsible,  is not a good idea. Without support of each other, we can’t survive! Please read, share and comment on Human Relationships.
A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open.

He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter. The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.
The husband just said, “I am with you.”

The husband’s totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.

No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. Take off all your jealousies, un-forgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think. Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.


Resurrection from the dead. Is that possible?

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Radical procedure, during which the patient’s blood is replaced with chilled saline solution, is able to return to life in a state of clinical death, says correspondent Press BBC Future .

“If your body temperature 10 ⁰ C, the brain does not give signs of activity, the heart has stopped, there is no blood in the body – hardly anyone would argue with the fact that you are dead, – says researcher at Arizona State University Peter Rea. – But we can return you back to life. “

Peter Rhee is not exaggerating. Experiments that he spends with his colleague from the University of Maryland Samuel Tishermanom proved that the body clock can be maintained in a state of suspended animation. Their technique, so far tested only on animals – one of the wildest in medicine.

During this procedure, the patient is derived from whole blood, and the body is cooled by more than 20 ⁰ C. After the blood was re-injected into the body, and the body is slowly heated.

“As soon as the body is pumped blood, skin immediately turns pink, and at a certain temperature the heart activated spontaneously, – says Peter Rea. – It’s pretty interesting: at 30 ⁰ C heart starts beating itself. Later, when the body becomes hotter, it alone restores a normal rhythm. “

It is striking that the animals that performed the experiment, after returning to life evince very little sign of any side effects. “For a while they stay on their feet unsteadily, but the next day behave absolutely normal,” – said Samuel Tisherman.

Tisherman gained worldwide fame after his stated willingness to apply this method to the Pittsburgh hospital patients. According to him, it must be received bullet injuries and are in critical condition, when the heart has stopped. For such people, the proposed technique Tishermanom – the last hope.

“Cheat death hibernation” – so informed about this idea broadcaster CNN.The New York Times wrote about the method Tishermana under even more scathing headline: “Kill the patient to save his life.”

Unnecessary sensation

Such sensational coverage of his experiments sometimes hurts Samuel Tishermana. During the conversation, he gives the impression of thinking, weighted and seeks to present their research in a sensational light.

Scientist especially careful in using the term “suspended animation.”

“I do not care what they can tolerate inaccuracy. But when people hear this term, they think of Han Solo from” Star Wars “or space travelers, which can be frozen and sent to Jupiter, where they may live,” – he says .

“It distorts the meaning of my research. Important to understand that this is not science fiction. This theory is based on experimental work and tested in strict accordance with the scientific method before using it will save people from death,” – says Samuel Tisherman.

His research partner Peter Rhee became widely known after the treatment of the U.S. Congress member Gabrielle Giffords. In 2011, she was attacked, she was seriously wounded in the head, but doctors managed to save her.

Peter Rea bolder than Tishermana, plans to use the “salt of suspended animation.” It does not exclude the possibility of maintaining the body in this state for a long time. Although, according to him, is the distant future.”What we are doing now – this is just the initial stage of the experiment,” – he says.

40-year-old man survived without any consequences for the brain after three and a half hours of cardio-pulmonary resuscitation

Samuel Tisherman began to study the problem of resuscitation still in medical school, where his mentor was Peter Safar. In 1960, Safar was a pioneer in cardiopulmonary resuscitation (CPR).Now chest compressions, or chest compressions – all this known procedure: man rhythmically pressed against the chest to cause the heart to re-earn it.

Works by Peter Safar changed our perception of death as an one-stage phenomenon. “We used to think that death is instantaneous, and when we die, there is no turning back,” – says Sam guy from State University of New York at Stony Brook.

“Before, it was. But with the advent of CPR, we realized that the cells in our body do not die a few hours after we find ourselves in a state of clinical death. So even after you become a corpse, you can return to life “- explains Sam guy.


Death: the moment or process?

Tisherman considers death moment (obviously subjective) when doctors stopped CPR, seeing that it will not help. But, in his opinion, and then some people could be brought back to life.

In December, attracted the attention of many medical research article in the journal Resuscitation, claims that half of the respondents ambulance at least once witnessed the so-called “Lazarus phenomenon” (autoresustsitatsii) when the patient’s heart began to beat spontaneously after doctors have lost hope .

But the heart back to work – it’s just one of the challenges facing the Product Recovery. Lack of oxygen due to cardiac arrest can cause severe damage and major internal organs, especially the brain. “Every minute, when these bodies are not supplied oxygen, the process of dying,” – said Samuel Tisherman.

His former coach Peter Safar to solve this problem suggested the use of therapeutic hypothermia – cooling the body to about 33 ⁰ C. For this purpose, the body of the patient, for example, can impose ice. At a lower temperature slows cell damage, reduced their metabolism, and therefore – and ischemic tissue damage, which leads to lack of oxygen.

Application devices supporting artificial blood circulation and supplying it with oxygen, help extend the time between cardiac arrest and brain death.One of Texas clinics recently reported that 40-year-old man survived without any consequences for the brain after three and a half hours of CPR.

He did chest compressions, replacing each other doctors, nurses and even doctors, students, bystanders. “Everyone in the House who could help, asked to take part,” – says Dr. Scott Taylor Bassett.

However, such cases are rare. Bassett says that physicians continued resuscitation just because the patient during the procedure came to himself, despite the fact that his heart is still not working.

“During resuscitation he could talk to us, and we understand that neurological damage he had received, – says Dr. Bassett. – I’ve never seen anything – either before or after this event. Due to this we have decided to continue” .

Timing is everything

Such prolonged cardiopulmonary resuscitation is not currently possible for those with cardiac arrest due to severe gunshot wound or injury – for example, resulting in a car accident. Now for the surgeon in this situation the best option – to block the arteries leading to the lower part of the body, and then open the chest and massage the heart to supply a small amount of blood-brain until processed and sutured wounds. But, unfortunately, in such cases, it survives only one person in ten.

It is for this reason that Samuel Tisherman wants to cool the body 10-15 ⁰ C. This can give doctors more than two hours of surgery. Such cooling is sometimes used in heart surgery, but the technique Tishermana – this is the first example of recovery of the patient in a state of clinical death.

Perhaps the most surprising part of this procedure is that physicians should deflate all the blood from the patient and replace it with chilled saline. Since the body’s metabolism is stopped, it is not necessary to maintain blood cell activity, and saline solution – this is the most efficient way to cool the patient, says Tisherman.

Samuel Tisherman for two decades with Peter Rea and other colleagues collected database, confirming that this procedure is safe and effective.Proof of this are the numerous experiments on pigs injured, almost incompatible with life. In these operations, the doctors saw that the animals were already far beyond life and death, and, nevertheless, they managed to save.

Patients with gunshot wounds were selected for the first test because in such cases it is easier to localize the site of bleeding

“Pig whitened as much as possible, – says Peter Rea. – It turned into a pale refrigerated meat.”However, if the animals were cooled quickly enough – about 2 degrees Celsius per minute – almost 90% of them survived when the blood is pumped back into their body. Even after they have lain lifeless more hours. “For the present it was an amazing sight – to see how the animal’s heart begins to beat again,” – says Peter Rea.

After the guinea pig back to its normal state, the researchers conducted a series of tests to see whether their brain is damaged. For this procedure before they trained pigs open container of a certain color, which was hidden apple.

After his revival of most of the animals remembered where to look dainty.The other pigs, which were not taught before surgery, learned to do it soon after. They grasped the job as quickly as the others. This suggests that the procedure did not have any adverse effect on their memory.

It is clear that to obtain permission for the same experiment with people was very difficult. Earlier this year Tishermanu finally allowed to use the technique as test trials in patients who received bullet wounds in Pittsburgh.

Many of us agree that, to preserve the brain is necessary to cool the body much more than is currently done. But go for it we do not dare

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An operation at the hospital this American city every month received one or two of these patients. This suggests that over the past few months some of them Tishermana technique has been tried. Although the results of this work, he does not want to share. Tisherman intends to conduct such tests in Baltimore, and if everything goes smoothly, Peter Rea will start the same work in the trauma center in Tucson, Arizona.

As with any other medical research, the transfer of these tests with animals to humans is associated with some difficulties. For example, at the end of the experiment the animals get their own blood, while people need blood donations, which spent a week in the store. Animals in the operation were under anesthesia, but people will have to do without it.

All of this can affect the body’s response. But Samuel Tisherman remains optimistic. “It is believed that the dogs and pigs react bleeding as well as humans”, – he says.

Doctors watching these experiments with great interest. “It’s very brave, – said Sam guy. – Many of us agree that it is necessary to preserve the brain cool the body much more than is currently done. But go for it we do not dare.”

If the tests are to plan, Tisherman intends to use his method to treat other types of injuries. Patients with gunshot wounds were selected for the first test because in such cases it is easier to localize the site of bleeding.

But he hopes that in the end will be the same and treat cases of internal bleeding – for example, as a result of the same accident. Perhaps someday this technique will be used to treat patients who survived a myocardial infarction and suffering from a variety of other diseases.

Success of the test may open the way to research and other forms of suspended animation. Some scientists want to test whether the set of medicines added to the salt solution further inhibit the metabolism and prevent damage to body tissues.

One of the most promising candidates for this role – hydrogen sulfide (hydrogen sulfide), a chemical compound that gives rotten eggs their unpleasant smell. As was found, it also reduces the metabolism of some animals. However, so far there is little evidence that hydrogen sulphide being toxic compound capable of increasing the chances of survival from cardiac arrest. Tisherman believes instead that it would be better to find powerful antioxidants capable of destroying chemical elements affecting cells.

Peter Rhee is convinced that the procedure “salt suspended animation” need to experience and implement as soon as possible. He told me about a patient who had seen the day before our conversation in the hospital.

“He was wounded in the center of the abdomen just below the rib cage, – he said. – The doctors did everything they could, but he died. This is just such a patient, which, we hope, will be brought back to life when the doctors will have more time for the operation. “


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Police asking for help finding missing El Reno man

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EL RENO, Okla. – Police in El Reno are asking for the public’s help finding a missing man.

Authorities say they are looking for 82-year-old Ray Barger after he disappeared Tuesday night around 7 p.m.

Barger is described as a white man, possibly wearing a dirty green plaid shirt and blue jeans.

Officials say he does not drive and had no access to a car.

He is also diabetic so he could be in danger without his medicine.

If you have any information on Barger, call El Reno police immediately.

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